Seasons of Motherhood
A Spring Lockdown
So much has changed in our relationship during this surreal time in our lives. Even though I’ve had to learn super fast and hard that she’s fiercely independent, growing up in ways that I’m thankful I’ve had the chance to observe far more in these slowed down, stay at home moments. The bedroom door slams shut more than ever before and it feels like she doesn’t want me quite so much. Then I wake up to an extra body pushing me out of bed in the mornings, her arm slumped over me checking that I’m there. I’ve also had to turn into a mind reader, though I still keep getting it wrong, daily. Furiously casting my mind back to being 13 all over again.
This is Artifact Motherhood; a collaboration of artists from around the world who have come together to share our stories of the joys and struggles of our journey. Through our writings and visual records, we want to create memories that are more than photographs with dates written on the back. These are the artifacts we are leaving behind for our children and for generations to come.
This entry is the second in a new series which we’ve just begun doing called “Seasons of Motherhood” and is meant to be one picture and one caption that represents our current journey/season of motherhood.
Please visit the next artist in our blog circle, Hollie Stokes, and continue through all the artists until you get back to me.
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That must be so hard but you are doing an amazing job and she’s so lucky to have you ❤
That’s a lovely thing to say, thank you Ann …now I’m off to find the ‘teen manual!!
Oh Jo, I relate to this intensely! Lots of love, x
Thank you Kirsty, thankfully she’s still sweet most of the time! x
I relate to your words so deeply right now. Such a beautiful moment to have captured and touching words .
Thank you Cindy, it’s that fine balance of intensity and slowed down living isn’t it?
This is such a great storytelling image!
Thank you Paige!
13 is such a tricky, limbo age. Not quite a child now but not quite a teenager just yet either. Still needing and wanting Mum but also trying to push and break away. It must be such a contradictory time, magnified by this strange time we are in. I love this moment you’ve captured and i love that the focus is on the sign on the door and not on her. x
Exactly this Jess, it’s almost like a foot in each world. For both of us! Thank you lovely, hoping you’re feeling well x
Oh bless you…the teens are tricky anyway but with lockdown I really feel for them. My 2 have had real up and downs throughout this whole season and my patience has been hugely tested but you’re so right, this time has been such a privilege to be able to slow down and give them the attention they need… even if we do get it wrong occasionally! Love this image Jo! x
It’s been so intense finding the right balance at times, but I honestly feel that we know each other better as a result. Thank you Abigail x
I love how you capture your teenage daughter while also respecting her personal space. I imagine it’s a difficult time with the adolescent hormones, but you’re doing a great job of being sensitive to her needs. Motherhood is a constant learning curve!
Thank you, sometimes we just need to hear those words don’t we! I also have to (rightly) get her approval for every photo of her that I want to share.
I find this image and your words so very touching. I also feel this is definitely to be saved for future days…
Thank you so much, it’s important to feel every step of the way isn’t it.