Our family adventures took a different path this summer for a number of reasons.
Our beloved camper van and my family’s much-loved holiday home on wheels. Has been undergoing major restoration. It’s been off the road for months. We always knew that this would be the year of different family adventures for us. We want to honour all those thousands of miles and far-flung destinations it’s gifted us, so we have chosen to gift it back a complete refit.
For selfish reasons, for all the adventures we yearn for and are yet to have.
I’m going to pause the van-less adventures and rewind back to the beginning of the year. Where we unexpectedly experienced a bereavement within our family. It continues to shift and shape the foundations of our daily lives. Finding that world kept turning while we tried to stand still, we found ourselves amidst school exams and some post-pandemic anxiety.
I booked two different overseas trips in an attempt to regroup and breathe together as a family. The first was a trip to Spain during the Easter break, but you tested positive 48 hours before we were due to leave. The second attempt was in June, to Sicily, after your last exam. The airline cancelled that flight that morning, three hours before taking off.
We were sat in a cafe at 8.30am and clicking ‘yes’ to an old cottage in Cornwall.
We headed off instead, to a place we thought we knew so well. Yet during this week, we found new wonders and experiences in the familiar landscapes. Explored the old tin mines buildings that frame the wild and dramatic coastline.
Walking east one day, west the next and talking to people we’d never met, possibly will never meet again.
* This season’s story is an edited extract from the next JUNO Magazine Autumn issue.
Artifact Motherhood is a collaboration of artists/mothers from around the world. Sharing stories of the joys and struggles of our journey. Our hopes and dreams for our children. With little nuggets of wisdom here and there. These are more than photographs with dates written on the back. These are the artefacts we are leaving behind for our children and the generations to come.
Please visit the next artist in our blog circle, the talented Hollie Stokes and continue through all the artists until you get back to me.
oh what a heart breaking beginning to your year and then followed by so many frustrations! My heart goes out to you big time but I’m so happy you managed to find some peace in Cornwall and had an amazing time! And how exciting your van is getting a full refit, I can’t wait to see all of the adventures you take in it!! beautifully documented as always! sending you so much love.
Thank you so much my friend, there have certainly been some off-piste adventures because of this. We’re feeling a little like excited, expectant (refurb’d travelling home) parents here!
Your storytelling comes to the fore here with your interweaving of images and timeline in a way that feels like I’m on a journey too. Wonderfully done! And I’m sorry that this year’s plans have gone topsy-turvy. Yet you’ve embraced the spontaneity and glad some good things have come from those.
These are such heartfelt words here lovely D, thank you. It’s certainly been a topsy-turvy year in so many ways and as always, writing about these times for our AM project is such a cathartic process. Excited for these new van adventures too!
I love how you turned a sucky situation into a fantastic adventure. It might not have been what you were after but that scenery looks amazing! I’m glad you had such a lovely time in the end.
Exploring here certainly lifted the mood! Thank you so much Leila.
Love reading your stories. So glad you had an amazing time in Cornwall. The pictures are all lovely. Can’t wait to read about your van adventures soon!
Thank you so much Min. We cannot wait to have our van back on the road once more!
I can’t wait to see you back on the road with her for future adventures – actually I can’t wait till we get ours fixed up again and we can park them side by side 😉