My birthday was at the weekend and it was a special one. Not in terms of years (though I won’t linger too much here!) but in terms of simplicity, location and bucket loads of gratitude.
It’s been months of further lock-downs, school year groups out having to self isolate, and us as parents feeling like she only ever came out of her bedroom for survival purposes. To eat, drink and use the bathroom. The teen’s domain, the safe space, the social hub with every household screen and device holding a friend of hers, all sat within those four walls. I’m certain these friends’ bedrooms must have all looked and felt the same.
This day she became mine again for a few hours. We ran around that shoreline like crazed unleashed fiends until the sun went down. Then we sat drinking hot chocolate on the headland as it finally disappeared into the ocean.
This is Artifact Motherhood; a collaboration of artists from around the world who have come together to share our stories of the joys and struggles of our journey. Through our writings and visual records, we want to create memories that are more than photographs with dates written on the back. These are the artifacts we are leaving behind for our children and for generations to come.
This entry is the third in a series called “Seasons of Motherhood” and is meant to be one picture and one caption that represents our current journey/season of motherhood.
Please visit the next artist in our blog circle, the talented Jess Cheetham and continue through all the artists until you get back to me.
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Happy belated birthday ❤ and that sounds like the perfect day of memory making ❤
Ann, thank you. It really was the perfect day x
I’m so glad you had a good birthday. The headspin of our teens being physically closer to us that we expected at this age, yet detatched by necessity is a hard one I’ve found – I’m happy you had her back for a few hours <3
In a year full of upsidedown-ness it was one of the nicest birthdays, thank you. You are so right (being a mum to teens yourself, of course!) it is a headspin at times x
Gosh what a beautiful and poignant portrait of your gorgeous daughter – who looks so much like you! I love reading your posts. You write things I can imagine myself writing and feeling in a few years time. I hope in 2021 we may get to meet in person! And happy belated birthday to you, lovely Jo. x
Oh Jess, what a beautiful thing to say. I really hope we can meet in person next year also, we’re not that far from you I think? Huge love mama x
Happy belated Birthday Jo! That sounds like a wonderful day to me, I’m sure you both enjoyed it lots! Xx
It really was, so needed! Thank you Carla xx
Aw happy belated birthday. What a lovely portrait my friend. <3 Also, sorry this took me SO long – I blame the holidays! 😉